That was the best flight! Ever. Reasons? There were only 4 passengers onboard, and my bag was the only checked in bag. I waited in the luggage collection hall ALONE. Malacca airport is a sleepy one. Guess what? There was no taxi around. Luckily the officer helped me to call a taxi...by phone. Haha. Definitely nicer than Kuantan airport, and definitely quieter. Sunyinya airport ni. I wonder how does the shops survive. Oh I am waiting for the taxi which will arrive in 30 minutes time...
Kenapa naik flight when imalacca is only 2 hours drive from KL? Because my 2 talian hayat is not here- abah and abang. If only (if only) anything happens such as the engine won’t start or it smells (or any possibility that my hyperactive mind can think of) I simply don’t know what to do. Have I mentioned earlier that I don’t even know how to get access to the engine, let alone know what to do next should I succeed in opening it. I only know how to open the boot. Pathetic.
Even if abang is around, I don’t want him to drive me anywhere far. I’m the type of wife that loves to say, “Abang, SLOW sikit” when the husband is driving. Abang always replies, “Abang bawa 80kmh ni....” Hahaha. I have this car phobia huuu, that is why I prefer to fly to Kedah and Kuantan. Sometimes it is cheaper to fly with airasia and fireflyz as compared to driving.
Puteri Resort is a big resort Alhamdulillah. There is a big waddling pool which I’m sure Ameer Faheem would love. Oh suddenly I miss that little boy that much. Life isn’t fun at all when the fun isn’t shared with loved ones.
There are 91 of us. Few things set me apart from the rest of the group. First, I’m the only local graduate among the overseas graduates. Most of them are from Indonesia, a good number from Ukraine and Russia, and few from UK, Australia, india and new zealand. Secondly I’m the only one with kid hehe. There are few pregnant ladies though, guess that makes me look older than the rest ;p. That’s a lie. They actually couldn’t believe that I’m a mommy to a I year ++ boy. Third I’m the only one who have just attended the spa interview and got the induction straight away. Most of them have been waiting for 4-5 months... Ya Allah how He makes things easy for me.. But overall, mingling around is fun, the talks are boring yet beneficial, foods are abundant, tight schedule (8am-11pm daily) is tiring, internet is problematic (it’s such a rare occasion to get a connection) and I got Hosp Sg Buloh!
Alhamdulillah ala kulli hal.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked this question and he replied in Al-Fataawa al-Kubra:
“Question: a man married a woman and she stipulated that he should not take another wife or make her move from her house, and that she could stay with her mother, so he married her on this basis. Does he have to adhere to this, and if he goes against these conditions, does his wife have the right to annul the marriage or not?
Answer: yes, these conditions and similar ones are valid according to the madhhab of Imaam Ahmad and other scholars among the Sahaabah and Taabi’een, such as ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab, ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas, Shurayh al-Qaadi, al-Oozaa’i and Ishaaq. According to the madhhab of Maalik, the condition states that if he marries another wife, (the first wife) has the choice of what to do, and this is a valid condition. The woman has the right to leave him in this case. This is similar to the idea in the Madhhab of Imaam Ahmad. The basis for this is the hadeeth narrated by (al-Bukhaari and Muslim) in al-Saheehayn from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): ‘The most deserving of conditions to be fulfilled are those by means of which sexual intercourse becomes permissible for you.’ ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaabsaid: ‘Rights are in accordance with conditions.’ The Prophet dictated that the conditions which make sexual intercourse permissible are more deserving of fulfilment than others. This is the ruling on conditions of this nature.” [al-Fataawa al-Kubra, part 3, Kitaab al-Nikaah].
1."Isteriku, Iktitraflah kelakianku"
3."Isteriku, Janganlah Leteri aku"
4."Isteriku, Fahamilah Perasaanku"
5."Isteriku, Berbincanglah dengan ku"
6."Isteriku, Hiasilah Dirimu"
7."Isteriku, Berlemah Lembutlah terhadapku"
9."Isteriku, Janganlah Pilih Kasih Terhadap Anak-anak"
10."Isteriku, Jagalah Makan Minumku"
12."Isteriku , Didiklah Anak-Anakku"
13."Isteriku, Raikan Keluargaku"
14."Isteriku, Sembunyikanlah Kepintaran & Kelebihanmu"
15."Isteriku, Janganlah Membuang Masamu"
17."Isteriku, Patuhlah Kepadaku"
18."Isteriku, Janganlah Cemburu Buta"
19."Isteriku, Tunjukanlah sifat sabarmu"
20."Isteriku ,Iktiraflah Kepimpinanku"
21." Isteriku, Bantulah Kejayaan ku."
22"Isteriku,"Jadikan Anak2ku Insan Berakhlak mulia"
23."Isteriku, Permudahlan Penglibatan Sosial ku"
24."Isteriku, Janganlah Boros"
25."Isteriku, Hargailah Kejayaanku"
27."Isteriku, Suburkanlah Pembangunan Intelek ku"
29."Isteriku, Berterus-terang dan Berkomunikasilah Denganku"
30."Isteriku, Janganlah Terlalu Mengawalku."
Hasrat dihati ingin kurang menulis tapi yang berlaku sebaliknya ;p Tidak mengapalah aku penuhkan dengan luahan, agar abang terisi kerinduannya. sebelum hospital dijadikan rumah utama sehinggakan tidak punya masa utk menghadap laptop lg. Seharian lelah berurusan, pasti ada waktu berbaki untuk aku merindukan abang..sungguh3! lantas membelek foto2 lama dalam Humaira'.