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Thursday

To the bunch of mummies!

I guess I'm trying to shift back my attention to Pink-chan (wife of Lavender-kun) now that Abang is prpearing to fly back to Jordan in 2 days time. Huuu. Am not planning to frequently update this blog anyway, since I seriously belief it makes me more sentimental haha. Am not planning to be active in blog-round as well huuu since I think Abang had enough dose of baby talk from me. Well humans hardly feel grateful with what they have, aren't they? Mankind are possibly created to be envious towards each other, POSSSIBLY..

Daily dose of:

"Abang, mawaddah kan dah dapat baby boy, nama dia 'Ukasyah. Comel. Jom kita ziarah dia"

Abang: Iye? Jom.

"Abang, Atikah junior abang kat MMAS kan, baby dia dah keluar dari hospital"

Abang: Alhamdulillah

"Abang kenal tak Nihlah kat matrik dulu? Dia kan dah pregnant sekarang.."

Abang: Kalau nampak muka mungkin cam. Oo dia pregnant ye

"Abang kenal Izani kan? Yang pharmacy 3rd year tu. Wife dia kan dah pregnant 2 bulan.."

Abang: Kenal. Dia masyi Quran tau. Wife dia pregnant? Rezqi dia, Alhamdulillah

"Abang, K.AC kan dah pregnant sekarang!"

Abang: Iyye?

"Abang, Kak Ati kan anak dia dah 2 orang. Itupun dia tak sabar nak lagi yang ketiga"

Abang: Mungkin K.Ati nak baby boy pulak

"Abang, wife Jumadi dah nak dapat second baby dah. Nak cukup sepasang sebab dia expecting a baby boy"

Abang: Alhamdulillah

"Abang, Basyir comel kan? Kan?"

Abang: Haah. comel. muka dia macam muka mak dia.

"Abang, wife Tuan Bad kan dia jaga baby dia sambil belajar sekarang"

Abang: Hmmm

Hahaha. I think I repeat the same things everyday although I know very well that Abang are very well informed on the latest news. And although I know very well Abang terpaksa banyak sabar je bila aku ulang2 benda yang sama. A marriage is not complete without kids, isn't it? And I'd be lying if I say I'm not keen in having 1 huuu. Keadaan tak mengizinkan? I don't know. Eventhough I've been trying hard to convince Abang that I really can manage it, claiming that Maryam the mother of Prophet Isa alos raised him singly. Really I have no experience and I don't have the right to convince anybody or myself huu. And for this reason, I really think I should watch out my blog-round a bit just to prevent myself from going overboard in making Abang agree to have kids haha. Still to the mums out there, you are so lucky! Be a bunch of good mummies and raise up great mujahid and mujahidah! :)

4 comments:

UMMUANEEQ said...

Salamun alaik ya Maryam.
It's true a marriage isn't complete without a kid.
Obviously I'm agree with that.
I think what u're facing rite now, is just the same with what I felt on earlier time of my marriage several months ago.It's hard to make a decision wether to be pregnant or not when we're separated away from each other. Like u and Athiq, it's the same like me and my husband. He is a phd student in UK, and I'm here, at Malaysia, still doing degree in engineering at UKM.

But Allah knows best Maryam. On July, I've pregnant. My husband felt reluctant at first, but Allah never test us something that we're not able to manage on it. I've been destined to be pregnant seven months after my marriage, even hardly tried to avoid it. But it's a way of saying, "Allah tidak menciptakan sesuatu dengan sia-sia". So I'm now learn to be ready, from day to day, to be a mum on this February.

Insya Allah. Every woman is created with naluri keibuan, which she can take care of her baby even when her husband is far away from her. I'm the one of them.

Same like u, my husband going back to uk 3 weeks after our marriage. We meet each other only on may, 4 months after that. And 3 days after I confirm my pregnancy, we have been separated away, I went back to Malaysia and he continue to be in uk.

But alhamdulillah, until today, even my tummy is growing bigger and bigger, I can make it.

I'm praying the best for u and Athiq. Semoga kalian sentiasa berbahagia walaupun berjauhan. Allah tahu apa yang terbaik buat kalian. Jika sudah sampai masanya, Dia akan memberi rezeki anak buat kalian. Dan semoga Maryam terus tabah.

Ummu Thana' said...

Salam..tersenyum baca post ini..Memang 'perasaan' tu akan datang sejak hari pertama kita bergelar isteri kan..=)..
Moga Allah berikan pilihan yang terbaik buat ukht dan zauj..
'Selamat Hari Raya dari India'

Hafiz & Mawaddah said...

Assalamualaikum...
Maryam, Mawaddah juga pernah melalui pengalaman seperti maryam itu...cuba meyakinkan suami Mawaddah untuk mempunyai seorang zuriat walaupun katanya kami masih belum mampu menghadapinya...dahulunya, Mawaddah rasa sangat sedih bila mengetahui orang yang kawin lebih lewat daripada Mawaddah tapi telah pregnant dulu...sedih rasa hati ini mendengar perkhabaran tentang rakan2 yang bakal menerima bayi...tapi suami cuba meyakinkan bahawa Allah tahu yang terbaik buat kita...dalam jangka masa setahun merana juga rasa hati ini...alhamdulillah, Allah hadirkan `ukasyah dalam keadaan kami yang telah bersedia...InsyaAllah, Allah berikan yang terbaik buat dirimu...yakinlah...Mawaddah doakan yang terbaik buat kamu ye...

Ummu Ameer said...

To Ummu Aneeq: Thank you very much for your comment!:) It's true, La Yukallifullahu nafsan illa wus'aha

To Ummu Thana': Thank you as well :) Selamat Hari Raya dari Malaysia

To Mawaddah: Terima kasih untuk doa (^_^)